I didn't know you had a partiality to Asian girls... ;)
Most definitely! I’ve always loved Japanese culture, not saying I know too much lol, but I do love it. As well as a huge love of all martial arts movies (the older Hong Kong movies are some of my favourites) and so little by little I was exposed to various Asian beauty that has just grown over the years. This has led to a broader stroke of appreciation for Indian and Middle Eastern ladies as well..
I find the way you use pet names so incredibly arousing! My boyfriend never calls me angel or sweetheart, i've tried to get him to but he just doesn't. When I read it I imagine your voice saying it to me and it makes me shiver. So nice!
Aww, well thank you angel! Keep at him though, one day he might surprise you :)
I hate that phrase. I saw it written recently and it simply annoys me.
So what if someone seeks attention from others for who they are and what they look like! Everyone appreciates a little attention, and I don’t care who you are, if you say you don’t then you’re full of shit! No one’s saying that it’s a must to get you through the day, but it’s something everyone enjoys.
I have never heard a man, who shows off his six pack, or flashes his cock, being called an “Attention Bastard/Whore/Prick” so why do we, as a society, have to berate those women who ask for or seek attention?
I love attention, I wish I was attractive enough to garner more attention, and you’re damn sure that when I am trim and muscular again i’ll be flashing my bod off to get as much fucking attention as I can!
Why would you do that Matt? I hear you cry. Well it’s simple, because I would have worked fucking hard to be happy with myself and to look fucking good! So I will show myself off to all those who wish to see it! If you don’t like it, don’t fucking look!
The fact is we see photos of people all day long on Tumblr. Be it fitness, models, weigh-lifters, make-up artists, and many more reasons. We don’t track them down and throw abuse at them for being attention seekers, do we? NO WE FUCKING DON’T! But when we see a normal, everyday person, posting a photo, they become the anti-Christ, and we must berate them for it!
All I have to say is, grow up and keep your closeted mouths shut until you can function compassionately with the rest of societies beautiful minds!!
If you had the chance to say one thing to someone you really liked, to convince them to go out with you what would you say?
"I may not have much but what I have is yours. I may not be much, but what I will be is always yours." I don’t know, something like that maybe. However that’s giving my brain a few seconds to think about it. In real life it would be more like. "I may not be what I have, but what I am isn’t…ah bollocks….*kicks floor* never mind, bye, sorry."
So if we can't see her, could you describe her please? I would like to know who was able to catch your eye :)
Do you mean ‘Spa’ girl?
Umm, she’s about 5’6, brunette - long, dark blue eyes (which I have to actively stop looking at when I talk to her) She’s intelligent, and rather sassy, straight talker, but there’s a shyness in what she says. I just think she’s gorgeous, which is why I’m not asking her out for a drink lol!
So I saw your response to an ask saying how you get pleasure of pleasuring a woman without sex. My man says the same thing, but as a woman I'm completely mystified by it. I still get turned on but... Could you expand a bit more on why you can? How it satisfies you? I'm not sniping, just completely curious. Thanks in advanced if you do.
There are different levels of satisfaction, that is what you need to realise, not saying you don’t just making the point.
If I orgasm is it the same satisfaction? No, not at all. Orgasms give a chemical release that can provide a much different pleasure.
Knowing that I’ve brought so much pleasure to my lover is so much more appealing. It’s an emotional, almost spiritual, satisfaction that I get from it. Yes, it’s a little bit of a power trip too. To know that you hold the pleasure of another in the palm of your hand, or the tip of my tongue.
The fact is that for some men, and women for different reasons, can experience anxiety during sex that dampens the satisfaction they get from it. Although I generally don’t feel anxious while having sex, the fact that it is removed completely when I go down on a woman or perform foreplay, is noticeable. There is a lot of pressure on men in the bedroom, even more so these days with the more prevalent appearance of bondage, bdsm or rougher forms of sex. Giving your lover an orgasm through sex is something that escapes many men and it weighs on their conscious. Not to mention the fact that penis size also bothers more men than most people are aware. Body positivity is also something that many people forget hampers men just as much as women.
So you see being naked with a woman and engaging in sexual intercourse carries many worries for men. These are just a few reasons why some men might enjoy bringing pleasure, and yielding pleasure, from foreplay only.
Of course, it could also just be that they like it! :)
So idk I was looking at your blog and ugh there's just something about a guy licking a girl out that just does it for me. It's just like to me it just means more than the casual fuck, because they don't have to pleasure you that much more but they do and like just knowing that does it all (Idk why i'm telling you this btw) :')
I was waiting for the point! :P hehe
Well that’s the whole matter really, I love doing it so my lover never needs to pleasure me. If the world didn’t have sex and only foreplay I’d be a happy man, because I could go down on a woman for hours gladly without need for my own pleasure. I just love to have her all fidgety and flustered. You can go gently and soft or fast and furious, it’s just totally fun to do!